How to Get Him to Start Talking and Not Stop
Do you find it easy to talk to your fellow women, but impossible to talk to a man? Are you afraid of saying the wrong thing? Have you always felt nervous when trying to start a conversation with a man you haven't met? This is not unusual, just like men can be nervous when talking to women, women can feel the same way. There can be a great deal of pressure on starting a conversation but once you know what you say, you'll find yourself being more confident.
While just walking up to them and saying "Hi" seems like the obvious choice, the bigger problem is that even if you get that far what do you say then? Well there are two distinctions to be made here, is this someone that you know through an acquaintance or a stranger? With these two different situations you need to approach the conversation differently.
If it is someone that you know or kind of know, the best thing to do is learn more about them. When you know what they are likely to want to talk about, you can feel more comfortable of how to respond. If you know their interests anytime the conversation slows you can ask him a question about his interests, and that way you will be showing that you are interested in learning more about him.
Guys will rarely want someone that is a clone of themselves. So learning more about them does not mean to pretend to be interested in and know about all the same things they do. In fact, men love to explain things; they love to talk about their interests. So what you want to do is tell him that you don't know much about what he is into or that you're not into that yourself, but act like you want to learn. That opens the floodgates for him to talk while you get more comfortable in the conversation.
If you are interested in talking to a stranger, the idea is somewhat the same. Keep asking him questions, learn more about him. That way as he's talking you can get comfortable in the conversation. It is best to look at him as a friend or someone that you feel comfortable talking to. Just become engrossed with the conversation, smile, laugh and you'll find yourself gradually becoming more confident. If you simply focus on the question and answers, then it takes a great deal of pressure off the conversation.
Be yourself and be confident and you'll find yourself deep in conversation in no time.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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Added: August 25, 2009