Make Him Commit - Some Ideas to Help You Get What You Want

Is trying to make your man commit to your relationship your number one priority? Do you feel as though you are moving forward but your guy is content with things just as they are? Are you looking for ways to make him commit? You should continue reading for some helpful ideas.

The first piece of advice to remember is that men will resist change at all costs. Their frame of mind tells them that there is no reason to fix something that isn't broken, so why in the world is commitment necessary? Besides, they are dictated by social beliefs that they should have fun with as many women as possible before settling down. Commitment would certainly change that, so be prepared for a tough time when trying to convince him to commit.

When you meet some resistance, there are a few modes of action you can try. Play the hard to get scenario with him. When your guy has to work for your attention, in a way you seem more valuable to him, almost like a prize he has competed for and won. Once he wins the prize he will not let go for fear that someone else may grab it from him. You now have the beginnings of commitment.

Continue to live your life to the fullest. Treat yourself well, plan activities with friends, and keep up with your own interests and hobbies. The more interesting and involved you are, the more enticing you are for your man. He'll be working his way into making claims on your time as much as possible.

In contrast, if your guy prefers not to promise monogamy, then you should follow his lead. You are keeping yourself from prospects that could be much better suited to your desires who would welcome the chance to be in a committed relationship with you. If you feel deeply about your guy, then you owe it to yourself to discuss commitment with him. If it is obvious that he is not eager to move forward and you will not make him commit, move on and give yourself more options.

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