Watch What You Say - Don't Scare Him Away

Have you ever wondered if you could say something to scare a man away, but you have no idea how to watch what you say? Do you struggle to talk to men? Are you afraid you are scaring them away before you even get a chance to get anywhere? If any of these is true then you must learn to watch what you say so you don't scare men away.

There are some topics that send men packing. They just aren't comfortable with them and they want nothing to do with them at the start of the relationship. If women know this then they can avoid the topics and avoid having men run from them.

Avoid Talking About Your Feelings.

Feelings are often something scary to men. If you open up early in a relationship and he feels like you are sharing too many feelings he may get the impression that you are needy. Whether or not that is true this will have most men deciding against continued contact. Keep things light, especially the first few dates and don't let him know how you are feeling about anything at all!

Avoid Talking About Commitments.

Marriage, kids, houses, the future, and other types of long term conversations can scare a guy away early on. So can talking about commitments and being exclusive shortly after you met. Even if you are the only woman he is currently seeing, he doesn't want to feel pressured into anything until there has been some time and he has an idea whether or not he wants to continue seeing you.

Avoid Talking Bad About Others.

Sometimes it is easy to get complaining. Maybe you had a bad day at work and complain about the boss. Maybe another woman or an ex. None the less this brings in negative feelings into the conversation and can leave him feeling like he could be next.

It is important that you watch what you say when talking to a guy you don't know well. You don't want to cause him to feel panic and you don't want him to have negative emotions in anyway. These things can quickly scare him away.

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